About Relationships

Friday, April 27, 2007

Why Fixing Your Defects Will Skyrocket Your Success with Women

Okay, I get this type of letter all the timeā€¦

A lot of my readers send me emails which talk about their physical defects and how they're preventing them from meeting and attracting women.

For instance, many guys feel they're too bald or overweight to attract a woman. In fact these men OBSESS over these *flaws* so much that they become paralyzed with fear when talking to a woman.

So let me set the record straight on this...

First off, you CAN attract women no matter what you look like.

I've seen some of the UGLIEST and FATTEST guys attract women just by having an interesting personality.

And you can do the same!

BUT...

There are times when you feel like a physical characteristic is holding you back. My advice is to fix what you can and ACCEPT the things you can't control.

For instance, say you're a short person. Because your height is something you CAN'T fix, you know there is nothing you can do to become taller. So instead of worrying about being short, learn to develop your flirting skills to the point where your height WON'T MATTER.

On the other hand, if you have a physical defect which you can control, make every attempt to change it.

For instance if you're overweight, try losing a few pounds. Or if you're going bald, try to shave your head and cultivate a unique look. (It's worked for Bruce Willis and Jason Statham).

Just remember that no matter you look like, your success with women is not dictated by your looks or defects. If you can learn to attract women through your personality, then you'll get past the physical flaws that you think are holding you back.

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